When life problems seems to get way out of hand , we as individuals think that ending our life is the solution to all life’s problem . Sorry to say this folks but you are damm wrong ! That’s the only the start of many and greater problems to come when an individual decides to end his or her own life . Please read this blog about a blogger who attempted suicide several times and now is on the road to recovery because of someone who asked her ‘ How are you ‘ ? And the person who asked her that question is now her husband . You see what a difference it makes when someone who is concerned about another individual just asks’ a very simple and caring question ? And sure more than good things comes out of the whole episode of being in denial , being depressed , being alone and feeling a sense of unworthiness within yourself and a whole lot more of negative thoughts and feelings .
Why aren’t we being serious or taking it serious when someone closest to us reflects signs of resentment , anger and depression ? What more when suddenly all seems silence and shutting away from the world ?
Depression and suicide can be cured for it only takes a person to take notice and be concerned and caring towards the victim of depression and attempted suicide . Everyone seems normal on the surface but no one knows what is really happening inside of you and me – both emotionally and mentally .
Just weeks before this whole episode and tragedy strike about depression and suicide , I was reading an article and a real life story of a lady ( I have no idea why depression and suicide victims always seems to the ladies in particular …….sigh ! ) , who suddenly had her world turned topsy turvy because her husband left her with two kids to fend for themselves . Being a housewife and a mother , she had to move fast as in go in search of a job , arrangement for people and relatives to look after her two young children , travelling dilemma , practically – she became an instant bionic woman to her children ( minus the looser of her husband ! ) . All this , took a major toll on her and eventually led to depression and almost led her to suicide . Her girlfriend came to her rescue by advising her to seek help through counselling . After much thought and contemplation , she took her friends advice and went in to seek counselling from an independent church organisation . It was an on-going process for this gutsy lady and eventually it came to a point of time where she no longer needed counselling , she was stable both in life and the life of her children , she lost weight and looked more attractive and gained bountiful of confidence in herself and believed more in herself that she’s able to live her life to the fullest without that looser husband of hers . And guess what ??? That looser husband of hers came back crying for compassion and forgiveness from her ! BRAVO ! to this lady and I just smiled broadly from eye to eye because of that looser husband of hers . Well , at the end , she took him back but with a stern warning which I’m pretty sure he’ll regret it if that warning is not abide by . So – you see , depression and suicide can be handle if you know where you as the victim stand . Have the presence of mind to say no to suicide for suicide only eats the inner you . Suicide is evil . Suicide is NEVER the solution to life’s trials and tribulations . PLEASE – seek help immediately if you are in a cross roads about ending your life .
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